
What does the listening skills means here in this post? Listening skills here is not refer to the listening skills when you do the TOEFL test or anykind of english tests. What do I mean is the ability to listen to the people around us. No matter if he/she is our superordinate (our bos) or subordinate (people who report to us).
I met a lot of great people, who are great business leader, great managers, great motivator with all the great achievements. I notice that they tend to have a common skills, one of their skill is that they have an Excellent Listening Skills.
They have an outstanding abilities in listening to their investors, subordinates, employees, students, childrens and even whoever they met. They love to listen in order to be able to learn and to know what are the people think. They have assumption, they have the data, they have the information but still they like to learn in order to re-check whether the things they are thinking is right.
The great people, they have ability to listen to their subordinates to be able to know what the grass-root feelings, opinion, so that they know exactly what is hapenning in their organization. Great people never feel a shame and never think that they will looks stupid if they ask their subordinate and listen to them for some issues. Through the listening, people will acquire more data, information or anything.
On the other hand, if we just like to talk, to be heard and have a poor ability to listen, it will be very dangerous for us. It will be dangerous for our intellectual progress.
I feel sad when I saw managers who have poor ability in listening. They like to talk and being heard but they don’t like to listen. Even they are sometimes to arrogant to ask when they dont know what is actually happened. They think they know everything and have no need to ask the grass root what is the actual situation.
When we have to choose a leader, I think the listening skills is very important to be one of the criteria to be consider.
“Have a great Listening“
Adi Anggarayudha~Pondok Indah